Christmas cards have been filtering in one a day for over a week. Today I was excited as several cards came in one day. I love the cards that have a letter and a personal message (thanks Katie). The excitement faded as I began, once again, to feel guilty about not sending out cards this year. Multiple excuses could be given, but I'll refrain from listing each one. Perhaps I'll send out the Happy Holidays (Valentine's Day, Groundhog's Day, and President's Day) in Febuary, but I don't see it happening!
The reality is that this has been a different holiday season. I can't really say it's been difficult, just different. Thanksgiving was delightful! It was the first Thanksgiving I didn't spend in Iowa. Christmas will also be spent in Minneapolis. Plans have already been made to celebrate -- friends, church, and perhaps Hollidazzle ( a first). Although the dynamics of my family are different without Mother, the four of us (excluding her) have probably become closer. My friends have also made this holiday season wonderful.
It has helped me realize how important it is to realize that the holidays are different for everyone. I am blessed to have my father, Michael, Holly, and numerous friends. Many people don't have family close (proximity or relationship). This holiday season I will try to remember others and the difficulties they face.
The reality is that this has been a different holiday season. I can't really say it's been difficult, just different. Thanksgiving was delightful! It was the first Thanksgiving I didn't spend in Iowa. Christmas will also be spent in Minneapolis. Plans have already been made to celebrate -- friends, church, and perhaps Hollidazzle ( a first). Although the dynamics of my family are different without Mother, the four of us (excluding her) have probably become closer. My friends have also made this holiday season wonderful.
It has helped me realize how important it is to realize that the holidays are different for everyone. I am blessed to have my father, Michael, Holly, and numerous friends. Many people don't have family close (proximity or relationship). This holiday season I will try to remember others and the difficulties they face.
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